Dating advice sounds like fun
You probably don't want to ask this out of the blue (! If you find your date is a foodie with a fully stocked refrigerator, you may have struck gold. Do daters sometimes actually forget to ask this one? Finding out what someone does is obviously a must, but also important is observing if they are passionate and positive about it.This also reveals a bit about this person's lifestyle - are they a planner or more spur-of-the-moment? We saw this one in an Advice thread and really liked it. She, however, had a grocery list of problems with it. The exciting beauty in the bar or a stupid game (her words, not mine. Now she will show him who’s boss of this conversation. PM Boy: Hey sorry my phone was in my bag while we played. Out of everything I witnessed that Saturday afternoon, what stuck out most was the frustration Mel felt as a result of him not thumbing away at his keyboard and making those little typing bubbles as soon as humanly possible.
So, here is the profile that I simply had to post here.
I have noticed the following dating profile about a month ago, and I decided to post it here with very minor changes, as I consider this the most interesting and overall – the best female online dating profile I have seen so far, or at least one of the very best.
Some would consider this profile to be too negative and opinionated, but I strongly believe that “playing it safe” is not the right way to go when it comes to online dating.
In my article on why guys suddenly lose interest, I discussed how caring too much or stressing over your relationship can irreparably damage it. When you eliminate the care (or worry or stress or whatever you want to call it), you are free to really be in the relationship. Realize stressing gets you nowhere First, you need to realize that getting all wound up over the state of your relationship serves no purpose, ever.
The article sparked an avalanche of e-mails and comments from women who were feeling panicked over the state of their relationship. You can see the other person for who he is and you can give yourself to him freely – no strategy, no game-playing, no manipulation. You can just be and there is no greater feeling than that. How do we stop our minds from spinning into overdrive, sending out waves of unpleasant thoughts and alarm bells? It causes problems within the relationship, and more importantly, it takes a huge toll on your sense of self and self-esteem.